A major turning point
Menopause is one of the major turning points in a woman’s life. Approaching
menopause involves a process of change — and every woman experiences
this transition in unique and individual ways.
Many women discover that menopause gives them a new lease on life —
physically, emotionally, sexually, and spiritually. They are enthusiastic
about becoming free of their concerns about pregnancy and menstruation.
However, some women dread reaching menopause. They feel it is an affliction
that will make them unattractive, lonely, helpless, and useless. They
may mourn the loss of their fertility and youth. Women may experience
a wide range of feelings, from anxiety and discomfort to release and relief.
But the truth is that for most women menopause is not about extremes before,
during, or after. Most adapt to the changes and continue to live well
and healthy through these transitions.
If you are like most of today’s women, you will live a third of your life
after menopause. Planned Parenthood urges you to educate yourself, stay
informed, and plan ahead for this time of challenges and opportunities,
which could be one of the most rewarding and enriching times of your life.
What menopause means
Menopause is the time at "mid-life" when a woman has her last
period. It happens when the ovaries stop releasing eggs — usually
a gradual process. Sometimes it happens all at once.
Perimenopause is the period of gradual changes that lead into menopause.
It affects a woman’s hormones, body, and feelings. It can be a stop-start
process that may take months or years. "Climacteric" is another
word for the time when a woman passes from the reproductive to the non-reproductive
years of her life.
The ovaries’ production of estrogen slows down during perimenopause. Hormone
levels fluctuate, causing changes just as they did during adolescence.
The changes leading to menopause may seem much more intense than those
during puberty. The intensity may be affected by a woman’s feelings about
aging, including her reactions to social judgments about aging.
Induced menopause occurs if the ovaries are removed or damaged as in hysterectomy,
chemotherapy, or radiation therapy. In this case, menopause begins immediately,
with no perimenopause.
The time after menopause is called postmenopause.
Symptoms of menopause
As most women approach menopause, their menstrual periods become irregular
— they happen closer together and/or further apart. Other common
symptoms include
• Achy joints
• Hot flashes
• Temporary and minor decrease in the ability to concentrate or
recall
• Changes in sexual desire
• Extreme sweating
• Headaches
• Frequent urination
• Early wakening
• Vaginal dryness
• Mood changes
• Insomnia
• Night sweats
• Conditions commonly associated with PMS — premenstrual
syndrome
A woman may have one, some, or none of these symptoms. Symptoms can be
very unpredictable and disturbing if a woman doesn’t know they are related
to menopause.
A woman’s experiences during menopause may also be influenced by other
life changes:
• Children leaving home
• Changes in domestic, social, and personal relationships
• Changes in identity and body image
• Divorce or widowhood
• Retirement
• Increased anxiety about illness, aging, and death
• Loss of friends, loved ones, and financial security
• Increased responsibility for aging parents
• Anxiety about loss of independence, disability, or loneliness
Increasing numbers of perimenopausal women also have young children to
care for.
Whatever the cause or circumstance, the conditions women experience before
and after menopause are very real and sometimes need medical attention.
While 10-15 percent of American women experience no symptoms of menopause,
another 10-15 percent become physically or emotionally disabled for various
periods of time by some of these symptoms of life changes. And all women
face increased risk of heart disease and osteoporosis after menopause.
Perimenopause is unpredictable
Perimenopause may begin as early as 35. It usually starts about two years
earlier for women who smoke than for women who don’t.
Women reach menopause at different times. The timing is not related to
race, class, pregnancy, breastfeeding, fertility patterns, the birth control
pill, height, age of menarche (first period), or age at last pregnancy.
The average age for menopause is 51. If menopause is reached naturally
or surgically before the age of 40, it is called early or premature menopause.
Estrogen levels drop very abruptly after induced menopause — when
both ovaries are removed surgically or through radiation or chemotherapy.
This often intensifies the conditions associated with menopause and may
lead to major physical and emotional changes, including depression.
Most women who have "natural" menopause experience a more gradual
decrease in hormone levels.
It is somewhat reassuring to remember that perimenopause is a temporary
phase. And most symptoms are temporary, such as mood changes and hot flashes.
For most women perimenopause will last two or three years, though for
some it lasts as long as 10 or 12 years.
A few symptoms — vaginal dryness and changes in sexual desire -may
persist or worsen after menopause unless they are treated.
Women in perimenopause have reduced fertility but they are not infertile.
Although menstruation may be sporadic, pregnancy can happen. That’s why
women need to consider birth control during perimenopause. All women should
discuss their contraceptive options with a clinician — whether or
not they are menstruating.
Hot flashes & night sweats
Hot flashes are sudden or mild waves of upper body heat that last from
30 seconds to five minutes. They are caused by rapid changes in hormonal
levels in the blood.
Hot flashes can start with a tingling sensation in the fingers or rapid
heart beats. Skin temperatures rapidly rise from the chest to the face
and may cause facial redness and sweating.
Seventy-five out of 100 women experiencing perimenopause have hot flashes.
Half have one each day. Twenty out of 100 women have more than one a day.
Ten out of 100 have them up to five years after menopause. They are very
uncommon after that.
Hot flashes that happen during sleep may include drenching sweats that
can soak the bedding. These are called night sweats.
Options for relieving hot flashes
• Prescription treatments include hormone therapy and other medicines
prescribed by a clinician.
• Non-prescription treatments include vitamin E, herbs, foods
with soy, and effective lifestyle adjustments, such as:
regular exercise, biofeedback, cold showers, decreased stress, and cooler
rooms
reduced intake of caffeine, alcohol, hot beverages, and spicy foods
wearing thin layers of all-cotton clothes that can be removed during
hot flashes
keeping a hot-flash diary to learn what triggers them and know what
to avoidOsteoporosis
Osteoporosis is the loss of bone mass — the "thinning"
of bones that makes them less dense. One of the causes is decreased estrogen
after menopause.
After menopause, women may lose between 2-5 percent of bone mass per year
for five years. This puts women with thin bones at high risk. Their bones
become more brittle and more likely to break. In older women, hip fracture,
due to osteoporosis, can be fatal.
Bone loss begins around age 30. That’s why it is very important for women
of all ages to build bone mass with weight-bearing exercise like walking,
running, and weight lifting and with calcium-and vitamin D-rich diets.
Because most women don’t get enough calcium in their diets, all women
are encouraged to take calcium supplements — at least 1,000 mg of
calcium before menopause and 1,200 mg after menopause.
Certain medications can help stop osteoporosis. Estrogen therapy (ET)
can also help stop osteoporosis. Women who are taking ET for other symptoms
of menopause have a reduced risk of osteoporosis, but taking ET solely
for the prevention of osteoporosis is not recommended.
Those at highest risk of osteoporosis are women who
• are white or Asian
• have hormonal conditions such as diabetes, hyperthyroid, or Cushing’s
disease
• weigh less than average for their height
• have early menopause
• smoke
• have a family history of osteoporosis
• don’t get enough exercise
• have a diet low in calcium and vitamin D
• take thyroid or cortisone medications
• have a diet high in caffeine, alcohol, or protein
Osteoporosis has no symptoms in the early stages. It can cause back and
abdominal pain in the late stages. Bone density testing is recommended
• Following menopause or any other prolonged time without menstruation
• If a woman takes steroids, which can cause rapid bone loss
• If a woman has an overactive parathyroid gland, which can lead
to rapid bone loss
Sex and the mid-life change
Sexual desire is often diminished during symptoms of perimenopause, but
it is often restored when these conditions subside.
After menopause, many women have increased sexual desire because they
no longer worry about unintended pregnancy. On the other hand, about one-third
lose some of their sex drive.
Vaginal dryness and the thinning of genital tissue can lead to discomfort
during sexual intercourse and masturbation. Over-the-counter, water- soluble
vaginal lubricants may be helpful. Estrogen creams, tablets, and rings
used in the vagina restore the tissues and are available by prescription.
Menopause is nature’s original contraceptive. However, menstruation may
be unpredictable for some time toward the end of perimenopause. So, it’s
a good idea to wait a full year after what seems to be the last period
before giving up contraceptives.
Using the Pill during perimenopause may mask menopause because periodic
bleeding will continue.
Women who use the Pill can have their hormone levels checked (after stopping
the Pill) to find out if menopause has been reached.
Remember: Menopause is no protection against sexually transmitted infections.
Male or female condoms can reduce the risk of infection during sexual
intercourse if you or your sex partner have more than one partner.
Kegel exercises for better muscle tone
Kegel exercises help firm up the vaginal canal, control urine flow, and
enhance orgasm. Tighten and relax the muscles you use to stop urination.
Do at least five Kegels in a row several times a day:
• Tighten a little — count five.
• Tighten a little more — count five.
• As hard as possible — count five.
• Relax in reverse steps — count five at each step.
Hormonal and non-hormonal therapies
There are many therapies for symptoms and conditions associated with menopause.
Hormone therapy (HT) works for millions of women. But the hormones used
in HT may pose risks as well as benefits.
Many women avoid those risks by choosing alternatives, or complementary
therapies, including homeopathy, herbal treatments, eating soy products,
and Chinese medicine — these particular therapies may also have
undesirable effects.
It is best to consult a skilled, experienced practitioner to determine
the remedy, dose, and treatment schedule for whatever therapy is chosen.
Hormonal therapies
Hormone Therapy — HT uses pills, patches, implants, and vaginal
creams to restore estrogen and other hormones that decrease during perimenopause
and menopause. Testosterone is sometimes used to increase sexual desire.
Non-hormonal therapies
Exercise — Aerobic, weight bearing, and stretching exercises are
recommended for reducing risks of osteoporosis, cardiovascular disease,
and symptoms of menopause.
Diet — A diet high in fruits and vegetables and low in saturated
fat is recommended for overall health benefits. Soy products, foods such
as soybeans, tofu, soymilk, and roasted soy nuts, are also recommended.
Soy contains phytoestrogens. These plant chemicals are similar to estrogen.
Vaginal Products — Over-the-counter creams without estrogen are
also available — lubricants for intercourse and moisturizers for
dryness.
Herbal Treatments — Herbalists recommend herbal tinctures, capsules,
and infusions — especially those rich in phytoestrogens.
Chinese Medicine — Chinese medicine practitioners recommend acupuncture
and herbal treatments to harmonize a person’s life energy or Qi (chee).
Homeopathy — Homeopaths recommend minute doses of medicines that
in larger doses cause symptoms like those of the condition being treated.
For example, a remedy made from onions is used to treat colds with symptoms
like runny nose and teary eyes.
Many women also benefit from counseling during mid-life changes.
Hormone therapy
Women must weigh the benefits of HT against the risks. Women considering
HT should discuss their personal risks with their health care provider.
Women base their decisions on their individual and family medical histories.
HT should be used at the lowest effective dose and for the shortest period
of time to relieve symptoms.
Benefits
• Reduces drying and thinning of vaginal tissue
• Reduces the risk for osteoporosis
• Eliminates hot flashes
• May improve energy, mood, and sense of well-being
• Decreases insomnia
• Improves levels of "good" cholesterol
• May restore sexual desire
• Reduces the risk of colorectal cancer
• May improve concentration and memory
Risks
• May cause symptoms like PMS
• Increases risk for uterine and invasive breast cancer in some
women
• Increases risk for blood clots
• Increases risk for gall bladder disease
• Increases the risk of heart disease in certain women
• May have other undesirable side effects, including — vaginal
bleeding, bloating, nausea, loss of hair, headaches, itching, acne,
breast tenderness, increased cervical mucus, and corneal changes that
prevent the use of contact lenses
Some conditions that may affect the HT decision
Breast Cancer — Only one out of 2,200 women under 20 develops breast
cancer. The rate rises every year after that. By 50, the rate rises to
one out of every 36. At 60, one out of every 26 women develops breast
cancer. It has been found that use of HT increases the risk of invasive
breast cancer. The longer a woman is on HT, the greater her risk of invasive
breast cancer.
Heart Disease — Before menopause, women have about three times less
risk of heart attacks than men. After menopause, women’s risk increases.
By the age of 65, women’s risk of heart disease equals men’s
risk. Women can reduce their risk of heart disease by not smoking, eating
a healthy diet, and getting exercise.
Estrogen therapy has been shown to increase heart disease risk in some
women. A thorough discussion of your heart health history (including family
history) is necessary when discussing HT with your clinician.
Some treatment resources
Planned Parenthood (mid-life services)
Many Planned Parenthood centers offer midlife services. To reach the nearest
Planned Parenthood health center to ask if midlife services are offered,
call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN.
North American Menopause Society
(for information and to find physicians)
5900 Landerbrook Dr., Suite 195
Mayfield Heights, OH 44124 (440) 442-7550 www.menopause.org
The National Osteoporosis Foundation
(bone-density information, testing, and physician referrals)
1232 22nd St., N.W.
Washington, DC 20037 (202) 223-2226 www.nof.org
National Center for Homeopathy
801 N. Fairfax St., Ste. 306
Alexandria, VA 22314 (877) 624-0613/(703) 548-7790 www.homeopathic.org
Build a good support system
Society offers few rites of passage for women — especially when
it comes to biological changes. More and more women are forming self-help
support groups to help navigate the changes that menopause brings —
psychological, emotional, spiritual, social, as well as physical. Families
and friends can provide important support, too.
Men also experience mid-life changes that may include decreased ability
to have an erection, depression, and the loss of muscle mass, sexual desire,
and sense of well-being. But the hormonal changes of "andropause"
are more gradual.
Women and men need to educate their partners about the changes they experience.
They can build mutual support by keeping one another informed. Couples
counseling can be very valuable for partners in mid-life.
Be prepared
Ensure continued good health for yourself: regular pelvic and breast exams,
Pap tests and mammograms can help prevent cervical and breast cancer.
A good low saturated fat, high-calcium diet and regular weight-bearing
and aerobic exercise three or more times a week may help prevent osteoporosis
and heart disease.
If you are at risk for sexually transmitted infections, use condoms to
protect against infection.
Start preparing for perimenopause and menopause as early as possible.
Today is a good time — no matter how young you are.
After menopause
Many women discover a sense of liberation after menopause. They are eager
to say good-bye to premenstrual symptoms, cysts, fibroids, childrearing
responsibilities, worries about unintended pregnancy, and the gender-role
stereotypes associated with youth!
More and more women enter menopause challenging the gender-role stereotypes
associated with age and are able to welcome a world in which 50 or more
years of gathered wisdom can guide their lives.
Many also face increased responsibilities and declining health. Instead
of being freed of many responsibilities, they inherit the care of aging
parents or other family members. Some suffer ill health and reduced financial
status and are overwhelmed with the profound losses of those they love.
But on the whole, postmenopausal women are the least likely of all women
to be depressed. They have a greater sense of well-being than at any other
point in their lives.
Postmenopausal women often become leaders in their families and communities.
They can enjoy the pleasures of introspection, rest, heightened career
pursuits, or an intensified sense of their sexuality or femininity. They
may retreat and relax, or they may take up new challenges with restored
vigor. Whatever they choose, they are more likely to do what pleases themselves
than they are at any other time in their lives.
Perimenopause can be an opportunity to reassess life’s goals. Menopause
can be a new beginning — a gateway to personal growth.
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